Tuesday 13 February 2007

What am I Doing with My Life?

I stumbled across the acronym S.O.A.M. when I googled the question "what am I doing with my life?". S.O.A.M. is an acronym for "self-ownership, self-appraisal, and self-management". It translates as taking responsibility for my life, being brutally honest with myself, and doing something about it, which is something I haven't been doing enough of.

I have included a link to Jan Maizler's article rather than quoting it to death. Read it if you're interested in personal growth stuff.

I was floundering in a state of indecision, doubt, and inertia for about a month after Christmas. My brother and sister-in-law had been to Galway for a 10-day visit, and it was really painful to watch them leave. I think we managed not to annoy each other too much and had some great conversations. Coming to Galway at Christmas is not ideal because people take their Christmas seriously here, so there's not much to do other than sit around the apartment eating Christmas leftovers for days on end. I know Dave and Bo were happy to be heading back to Italy!

I found out that someone close to me is going to be leaving Galway, and I found that difficult to accept because I have had to work so hard to create a new circle of friends here. Panic stations all around. I think I've come to grips now, and I have calmed down and reassessed my own goals and priorities. I'm staying in Galway for at least another year, maybe longer. Time to get those kids' books written and out there!

When I read stuff like this, I can see how self-absorbed I am. Yuck. Self-revelation isn't always pretty.


The S.O.A.M. Model of Growth

1 comment:

Chris said...

Hey honey, gald to see you back in blog land. You can't leave Galway until I come over for another visit. Work has been crazy crazy crazy busy with pulling the 11+ hr days but only until the transition period is over in the next month. Then I'll get around to doing some serious travelling.

Don't apologize for being blogging about yourself - really, that's what it's for. I have used this tool to let off the on psycho chick rant myself. It feels good to get it all down.

It's funny, I've been thinking of taking a stab at the creative writing thing too. Although not childrens books. I haven't quite decided yet, but I'll post my first few attempts and see what kind of response I get.

Stay cool girl.